What do you do when your grown child (age 19) is told months even longer that she has leukemia and doesn't do
anything about it
when the child gets around to telling you who knows what stage its in what can be done if anythingh
What do you do I have no clue
My daughter has what she called BLOOD CANCER which is leukemia and doesn't want to do treatment
because she doesn't want to lose her hair , yet its OK to lose YOUR LIFE!!
Not thinking about all the people she will leave behind most of all HER CHILD HER DAUGHTER who is only 2
years old.
and not to mention I buried one child 18 years ago and my mother just past away this June, I can not handle putting another child in the ground its

not natural
you are not supposed to > your kids they are to burry you
Since her dad past away in 2001 she has been so sad and unhappy she has said many times she wants to die and a few years ago she almost got her wish with pills
thank her baby's daddy she "  he found her in time

but she thinks since the child lives with the dad and other grandparents that it wont matter to her if she is gone or not but it will
it will so much
and who is to say that even with treatment that she wont die anyways but at least her child will know that her mother was  a fighter and didnt give up
without the treatments its just a lost cause

tell me what do you do to make your grown child know that life is short as it is and her family needs her most of all her child
what would you do