I kind-of have that problem. After dating someone and reaching a certain age, my youthful outlook on dating became much more serious. I realized that all of this dating was encumbering me from finding the person that would truely make me happy. Truthfully, it would be fun going around and socializing to a greater degree, but heavy, heated relationships don't do it for me anymore. I want more and I am not afraid to say it. Keep your hopes up. Maybe be active in finding the right person for you.